For Me and For You

I’ve been having trouble figuring out exactly what I want to say in this post.  I could blather on about how great my new job has been – I’m loving it, by the way – but that is only a small portion of what I want to convey.  I’ve talked it out with a few friends and tried several times to gather my thoughts enough to write a cohesive post.  We’ll see if I succeed this time.

I think the theme of what I’ve been learning over the past months is how good God is to me and how much His love is for me.  How He wants my good, not just to use me for others’ good.  I like for my life and the things I do to have a purpose so the thought that what I do and what I go through is so that I can encourage others has never bothered me.  I’m not sure it ever occurred to me – until recently – to consider that events are not merely meant to strengthen me to help others, but to build me up just because.

Just because God is love.

I’m not particularly good with emotions; love and loyalty go hand in hand for me but I’m not great at conveying it.  Nor am I good with expecting others to actively show me that they love me.  The knowledge is in my head but I still act like I have to go it alone and don’t consciously expect those who love me to show it.  I don’t expect someone else to actively seek my well-being without any other motives.  It sounds weird when I put it that way but it’s the best I know to express how I act.  It isn’t fair to my friends and family, I know, and I’m learning better.  I think that’s a little of why I hadn’t thought of God’s love being for me personally.

Since I lost my job and in the days and weeks that I was hurting and looking for a new job, God has been showing me how much He cares for me in a myriad of ways.  A friend who invited me to stay with her for four days – I had hoped for two at the most.  My Mom and Dad being steady rocks as I was floundering.  Another friend who I am used to encouraging turned the tables and was instead my encourager.  Yet another friend with whom I reconnected and who has played a role much like what I imagine an older sister would.  New friends from a Bible study group who I’ve barely known a month and yet are calling to find out if I’m coming to join them at volleyball.  Learning how to mow my own yard so I can feel that accomplishment.  A double rainbow more brilliant than any other and a myriad of other things less easy to put into words.

And the consolation that no, this trial that I am going through right now is not a good thing in and of itself – but good will come of it.

God’s love is as vast and powerful as an ocean.  It pulls you in, drags you deeper, and erodes the shifting sands of what you think is your foundation.  It is terrifying at times but glorious in its immensity.  We can never plumb the depths of His love.  Never.

Because God is love, He is not content to leave us as we are; He is unwilling to let us live as less than what He has planned.  And that often means trials, struggles, and general unpleasantness.  His love isn’t easy but it is rich.  And it is for you.

God’s love is for you.

He doesn’t put us through hard times, terrible times, only so He can use us later on.  We are not, I am not, merely a tool that He refines so that it will work better.  Not just a knife He sharpens to carve someone else into a beautiful design.  No.  I am His workmanship, His carefully made work of art, which He is constantly refining and tweaking and testing so that I will be something beautiful just because.  I may be a very useful something – like an elegant tea set – but the beauty is despite its functionality, not the cause of it.

It’s like when I make an Excel workbook for someone (don’t laugh, I really like building complex workbooks).  I don’t just make it functional for the person who needs it.  I’m tweaking the formatting, adjusting the column and row widths, adding extra flourish to the formulas just so the document is visually appealing.  It would be just as useful if it wasn’t brightly colored and used plain fonts instead of fancy ones.  But I add the extra pieces and I’m always working on it just because I enjoy it and I want the document to be pretty.  I want it to be lovely because the spreadsheet is, in a way, a reflection of me and I want it to be a good one.

I guess God is the same way.  The verse that says we are His work of art goes on to say that we are “created in Christ Jesus” (Ephesians 2:10).  In the beginning, man and woman alike were created in the image of God (Genesis 1:27).  And one day, those who have put their faith Jesus as their savior will see God as He is and “we shall be like him” because of it (1 John 3:2).  In 1 Corinthians 13, commonly known as the “love chapter” of the Bible, we see that we know God and ourselves only as a dim reflection, but someday, we’ll see God face to face (vs. 12).  Until the day comes when we are perfected before him, God is working on us so that we will be a beautiful reflection of Him and His love.

The mirror may be dim, but He’s polishing it clearer day-by-day.

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“You turned the tables over
There in your father's temple
You cracked a whip and raised a shout
My daughter asked me why
I said, "Love is never simple
It draws 'em in and drives 'em out."

I saw you there but it was too late to change my course
And I collided with a beautiful immovable force
And so the stone that I rejected
It has become the Cornerstone”

From “The Cornerstone” by Andrew Peterson

Behind the Scenes

Serving as an Angel of the LORD is always an exciting task.  Every time we see the master plan unfolded just a little bit further, there’s more to marvel at.  Take for instance, the day when the Three-in-One took on humanity.  I mean, humans were interesting enough as these frail, mortal creatures of dust that nevertheless reflected the Father’s image in ways we could never begin to imagine.  And then the Son became one of them?  Incredible.  Unimaginable.  Spectacular.  Stupendous…Ah, you get the picture.  The Enemy stepped up his attacks in those days and, well, let’s just say I never want to experience another day like Calvary again.  But the absolute best day in all of the ages was when the Son broke free from the chains of Death.  Most thought it impossible but he did it all right.

What’s my name?  It doesn’t matter.  There’s only one name you need to know, Yeshua, Jesus, the Messiah, the Christ.  It’s his name that matters.  Me, I’m just one of the heavenly host.  I’ve been battling against the Enemy for a long time now, longer than you’ve been around, and I’ve seen a lot.  Some of it ugly and some of it magnificent.  Like many others, I’ve been seen by Men a few times, when the Three-in-One permits it.  You might know me from when I was sent to break Peter out of prison.

Yeah, that Peter.  Simon the fisherman turned Peter, fisher of men.  Interesting fellow with a tendency to put his foot in his mouth as the saying goes.  But, wow, did the Three-in-One not turn him into a mighty warrior.  That mouth that sometimes got him in trouble?  It spoke the Creator’s very words that pierced even the hardest hearts.  It also got him arrested because he was telling the story of the Resurrected One.  Multiple times.

Oh, you want to hear the story?  Sure, why not.

Me, in those days, I was just in awe of what the Three-in-One was doing with his creation so when word came that Peter’d been arrested and that his friends were praying for his release, I was thrilled to be called on to help break him out.  Getting into the jail wasn’t easy – we opted for a stealth mission rather than full on attack – and I knew I’d have to be quick.  With all the prayers going on, I fully expected to find Peter waiting for his prison break.

Not so much.

Instead, Peter’s sound asleep, chained between two guards who are supposed to ensure he cannot escape without waking them up.  No problem.  I make sure the guards aren’t going to be waking up for a good long while and turn back to Peter.  Who is snoring.  Snoring!  In a prison cell, on a hard, stone floor, chained up, and he’s out cold.  Guess he’s not worried about tomorrow then.

“Peter.”  I call.

No answer.

Again – “Peter!”

He just curls up a little tighter against the cold.  Okaaayy…

“Peter!”  This time I smack him on the side and he actually wakes up.  But he doesn’t move other than to blink bleary eyes up at me so I hauled him to his feet “Get up, quick!”

A touch is all it takes for the chains on his wrists to fall away but Peter still doesn’t make any move.  Which is kinda unusual for me.  Most of the time I show up, people are terrified but Peter’s acting as if I’m just a figment of his imagination.  Oh well.  I’m in a hurry here so he’s got to get with the program.

“Get dressed and put on your sandals.”  I shove his stuff to him and make a quick check of the area.  So far, no one seems to have noticed that I'm breaking Peter out but who knows how long that will last.  I look back at Peter.  He's dressed and has his sandals on but is still holding his coat like he doesn’t know what to do with it.  This was more than a bit ridiculous.

“Put your coat on,” I said.  He moved like a man in a dream but did as I said.  “Follow me.”  I took his arm and we headed out.

Thankfully, Peter followed along without questions.  He stared around him like he didn’t believe what he was seeing was real but at least he didn’t trip over his own feet.  There were two guard posts before we got to the gates but Peter and I were walking just beyond mortal sight so they never knew we passed them (I always love doing that).  One of my friends was waiting at the gates and he opened them just as we got there.  I’m pretty sure Peter never even saw him.

“Took you long enough,” My friend whispered.  “We’re in the clear now; get him down the next street and he can make the rest of the way without our obvious interference.”

“Works for me.  He’s been acting like a sleepwalker the whole time.”  I look Peter over once more (the guy hasn’t moved a single step past the gate) and lead him down the road just a little farther.  At the next street, I scan the area for threats but it still seemed clear so I take that final step beyond Peter’s sight.  Now maybe Peter will believe  everything that just happened, actually did happen.

When I disappeared, Peter froze, blinked, and looked around him with growing astonishment.  Yep.  Now he realizes the whole thing wasn’t a dream.  Good for him.

Peter spoke then for the first time that night.  “Now I know for certain that the Lord has sent His angel, and has delivered me from the hand of Herod and all the expectation of the Jewish people.”  It almost sounded like he was reassuring himself that it was all real.  Believe me, Peter, you really were just rescued.

He shook himself after that little speech and took off took off for the house where so many of God’s people were gathered to pray, praises to our God singing from him as he ran.  Now that made me grin.

Mission accomplished.

There’ve been many more such missions I’ve had the privilege of being on.  And sometimes, I’ve had to stand aside and watch while the Enemy seems to be victorious.  But even in those times, I know that the Three-in-One is greater far and those apparent defeats often deal a greater blow to the Enemy’s forces than mortal and angelic eyes can see.  The battle rages on and while I don’t know when it will end, I do know how.

‘Cause when the Three-in-One steps in himself, there is nothing that can stand in his way.

It’s going to be awesome.

While the story above is almost entirely fiction it is inspired by the true events found in Acts 12:5-10.  I just can’t get past the image of this exasperated angel telling Peter what to do every step of the way throughout the rescue.  Angels are warriors of God but they are also his messengers, errand-runners, and even prison-breakers.  In this case, for a guy who thought he was dreaming every step of the way.  :-)

It is my belief that there is more to this world than what mortal eyes can see.  A battle rages across the ages between the armies of the King of Glory and the Enemy of our souls.  And while the death blow to the Enemy was dealt at a cross and empty tomb, the fight continues to this day.  Some people are more aware of it than others, I think, but all are caught up on one side or the other.  I make no pretense at knowing exactly what goes on beyond the realm of sight, but I do hope we can remember that not everything we don’t see is grim and dark.  Sometimes, what is going on behind the scenes just may be worth grinning at.

Beauty Unexpected

The whole trip started out on the wrong foot.  I left the house a good two and a half hours later than I’d intended and I still wasn’t sure I’d actually packed everything.  My CD player in my car is broken so I could only listen to the radio (Country music or Spanish channels only before much more than an hour passed) or the buzzy, staticky audio piped from my Kindle to the tiny speakers.  Storm clouds stretched across the horizon in precisely the direction I wanted to go.  Most of the time when I’m in the car for an extended period of time, I’m not driving which means car rides are an internal cue for “Nap time!” – the gray day did nothing the help me fight off drowsiness.

Yet for all that, I really didn’t mind the drive.  Sure the road was monotonous and the scenery generally uninspiring, but I was on my way to see a dear friend I’d not seen in months.  Plus, it was evidence that something good had come out of my jobless state – there was no way I’d’ve been able to take a week off for a road trip to Houston.  So despite the inauspicious beginning, busted CD player, and brooding weather, I wasn’t terribly bothered.  I just hoped I’d make it to my brother’s house before full dark.

I soon knew for certain that hope was not to be realized.  Just over halfway through my drive, I caught up to the storm I’d chased all afternoon.  The dark gray clouds alternately drizzled or dumped, as though someone couldn’t decide how high to turn the water on.  I had to turn off my buzzy music to concentrate on driving.  I could feel the reduced traction of my worn tires on the rain-slick road and gripped the steering wheel tightly.  Chasing the storm had been interesting.  Catching it was not.

As it drew near the sunset hour, I realized with surprise that rather than growing darker, the sky was suddenly lighter than it had been just a few minutes before.  Glancing out the rearview mirror, I saw the reason.  Though the storm clouds reached as far as I could see to the north, east, and south, they did not quite reach the western horizon and the setting sun lit them with a brilliant fire.

It was beautiful.

Amber, gold, coral, pink, and orange blended together in a glorious flame that was a total contrast to the gloomy clouds hovering like a dark blanket ready to snuff out the burning glow.  But this fire would not be quenched.  Part of me wanted to pull over and watch the stunning phenomenon but I also knew that when it was over, full dark would descend with a vengeance.  Still, I kept glancing in my mirrors, watching as the colors grew ever brighter and more intense.

Then, the sun itself dropped below the level of the clouds, the most brilliant part of the fire yet.  Someone, somewhere, I thought, is seeing a rainbow right now.

And then I saw it.

Right in front of me the most radiant rainbow I have ever seen appeared like magic.  I gasped aloud.  I could see every color from red to purple as clearly as in a child’s drawing.  To my right and left, the ends of the bow touched the ground and as I leaned forward, the top of the arch glowed against the darkling sky.  Beneath the arch, the clouds were pale and bright instead of dull and glowering.  My eyes followed the progression of light to dark and I saw to my utter astonishment not one, but two full rainbows, the colors in the outer bow almost as distinct as the inner one.  My jaw dropped.

Words failed me then, and still do, to describe the wonder of that sight.  In the midst of that gloomy day, week, month, here was beauty unlooked for and undeserved.  A gift from my Maker to lighten my weary heart.  Tears slipped from my eyes.  To borrow from C. S. Lewis, this was a beauty that pierced like a sword.  Like the sun that slipped through the clouds and illuminated the night, this splendor pieced the melancholy that smothered my joy.

As I watched the rainbows and glanced back at the sunset fire, it was as if God was reminding me that good for me can come out of my own storm of the heart, not just good for others.  I was thinking when I saw the sunset that someone could see something beautiful and hoped that I would be an encouragement to others in mine.  This was a reminder that my God is good and that he will bring beauty for me, his daughter, out of the storm, and not just use it for others.  My God loves me.  He gives good gifts to his children.  Though trials come, he uses them for good, not evil.

James 1:2-4 tells us to “count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.  But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.”  And I don’t know how many verses in the Psalms I have read recently that talk about good things coming from bad times.  Seeing the rainbows and reading those verses have reminded me that there is a reason for every trial, every stormy season.  And reminded me too that to God, I am not insignificant and my struggles are not paltry things below his notice because someone else is facing something worse.  He cares enough to take a discouraging start to a trip and turn it to an encouraging end.

For as long as the sun was above the horizon, and even a little after it fell below, the rainbows beckoned me forward.  And even when they faded from view, the memory of that wondrous sight buoyed me up during the rest of the treacherous drive.  Though my trip seemed to have started on the wrong foot, I would not change any aspect of it.  I hope that the sight of that double rainbow will remain with me forever.

As the days pass, I hope you too can be encouraged by my story, whatever you may be facing.  Know that God loves you and cares for you as dearly as if you were his only child.  He is love.  His love is greater and far more encompassing than we can grasp.  He loves us just as we are, joyful or despairing, hopeful or cynical.  Yet he loves us too much to leave us as we are and will ever be chipping away at our character until one day, we are truly like him.  Trials will come, but his love is greater than all.

What's that on the ground?

It's what's left of my heart

Somebody named Jesus broke it to pieces

And planted the shards

And they're coming up green,

And they're coming in bloom

I can hardly believe this is all coming true

Just as I am and just as I was

Just as I will be He loves me, He does

He showed me the day that

He shed His own blood

He loves me, oh He loves me, He does

All of my life I've held on to this fear

These thistles and vines ensnare and entwine

What flowers appeared

It's the fear that I'll fall one too many times

It's the fear that His love is no better than mine

(but He tells me that)

Just as I am and just as I was

Just as I will be He loves me, He does

He showed me the day that

He shed His own blood

He loves me, oh He loves me, He does

He loves me, oh, He loves me, He does

Well it's time now to harvest what little that grew

This man they call Jesus, who planted the seeds

Has come for the fruit

And the best that I've got isn't nearly enough

He's glad for the crop, but it's me that He loves

Just as I Am by Andrew Peterson, Copyright 2003 New Spring Publishing, Inc.

It Will Be

Not so very long ago, I was reading a new book before bed.  I was completely wrapped up in the story, eager to know what happened next as the tension increased and the impact of the character’s decisions grew greater.  Then something happened that had never occurred before in my memory.  I had to put the book down.  I had to stop reading.  Not because something bad happened or the story just took a wrong turn.  Rather, the author had given voice to a concept commonly referenced in Christian circles but in such a manner that I had to set the book down and actually think about what it meant.

In the passage, a character named Jovann walks in the land of dreams where things may appear differently than in the waking world.  The Songbird, who is more than merely a bird, has guided him in the Dream before and asks Jovann to follow the new Path laid before him.  Jovann hesitates a bit but answers with the following:

“‘My Lord,’ he said, ‘I must find the phantoms who plague my Lady Hariawan.  Will this path take me to them?’

‘It will,’ said the bird.

‘Ah.’  He’d almost hoped for a different answer.  ‘Well.  That’s good then, yes?’

‘No,’ said the bird.  ‘But it will be good.’”

From Golden Daughter, Page 264.

Read that again:

“‘That’s good then, yes?’

‘No,’ said the bird.  ‘But it will be good.’”

It will be good.

There are a lot of things that happen in this life that are hard.  That are not good.  Death.  Anger.  Unfaithfulness.  Jealousy.  Backstabbing.  Disrespect.  Hatred.  But for Christians, we have the promise that “...all things work together for good to those who love God…” (Romans 8:28)

I’ve heard Romans 8:28 used many times as a comforting verse to people when things aren’t going well or when they’ve lost a loved one.  “It’s going to be ok,” we’re told.  “God has a plan for all this.”  What I think we often fail to consider is that “No” that comes before “But it will be good.”

As a Christian, I can take comfort and have hope in the fact that God will work all things out for the good and for his glory.  However, that does not mean that everything that happens in my life, or in the lives of others, is necessarily good in and of itself.  Joseph being sold into slavery by his own brothers and later spending years in prison for a crime he didn’t commit was not a good thing of itself.  The martyrdom of Jim Elliot Ed McCully, Roger Youderian, Pete Fleming, and Nate Saint was not in and of itself a good thing*.  Jesus’s torture and death in and of itself was not a good thing.  What came out of these events, though, was.

Because Joseph was in Egypt, he was able to interpret Pharaoh's dreams and assume a leadership position that enabled him to save his family (and the entire country) when famine spread across the land.

Because of the example of the five missionaries in Ecuador, their families were able to return to the Auca people and bring the Gospel to them and other people groups nearby.  Jim’s wife, Elisabeth Elliot, also has a far reaching ministry sharing the Gospel and fundamentals of Christian living in part because of the notoriety of her husband’s sacrifice.

Because Jesus humbled himself and took the punishment that was mine for sin and was tortured and killed, there is hope for the world.  I can be saved and become a child of the Most High God forevermore.

And those are just three examples I can think of off the top of my head.

Its easy to lose sight of the fact that just because nothing happens outside of God’s plan and that all things will work together for good, it does not mean that all things that happen are good things.  We live in a fallen, sinful, broken world in which bad things happen.  Often to good people.  It doesn’t make sense.  If God is good, why would he have all this evil occur at all?  Why use evil for good instead of just keeping everything good?  The short answer to that?

I don’t know.

Yeah, not a particularly helpful answer.  But I do know this: our concept of good is often far too small.

We tend to think that a decent job, a happy family, a nice car, fair weather, and faithful friends equal “good.”  But if we look at the larger context of Romans 8:28 we get this:

“28And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. 29For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. 30Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified.” (NKJV)

Now, Christians have been arguing about the whole predestination vs. free will question for decades (and will probably continue to do so until the end of time when God answers it for us) but that’s not what I want to consider here.  Rather, take a look at what we are called or predestined to:

“according to His purpose...to be conformed to the image of His Son”

God will work all things together for good - and that good, is becoming like Christ.  Its not health, wealth, and happiness.  It may well be torture, poverty, and death.  It is becoming more like Christ.  Christ, God himself who took on the most torturous death known to mankind all to save an ungrateful bunch of people.  Christ, who came to seek and save the lost.  Christ, whose love knows no bounds and whose grace has no limits.  No matter how how bad this thing is in and of itself, God can and will use it to make us more like his Son.

The times where we live in the “No,” when things are bad and life is just hard aren’t fun.  Sometimes, we “don’t want to know the end.  Because how could the end be happy?”**  But for those who trust in Christ, our hope is not merely a feeling or a desire for things to eventually work out well.  Its a certainty, a confidence that “it will be” good in the end.

Right now, I'm living in the "No." It isn't easy. I'm far more scatterbrained than normal and I'm having some trouble remembering every little thing that needs doing. But God has been good even now and has let me see glimpses of the "it will be." By his grace and through his strength, I will walk with him through the darkness so that in the end, he can work out his purposes and make me more like Christ. It isn't easy and it isn't pleasant but it will be good.

The things that happen because Jovann finds the phantoms that haunt his lady’s dreams are not particularly good or pleasant.  But in the context of the larger story, they bring about something that is good in a way the characters could not have imagined.  I had to stop reading at that passage to be reminded that sometimes, we live in the “No” and that’s okay. Because that "No" is followed by "But it will be good."

“Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,

“Let this blest assurance control,

“That Christ hath regarded my helpless estate,

“And hath shed His own blood for my soul”

From the hymn It is Well With my Soul by Horatio G. Spafford



*Jim Elliot Ed McCully, Roger Youderian, Pete Fleming, and Nate Saint went as missionaries to Ecuador to reach peoples who had never heard the Gospel.  The Auca were known as a particularly bloody tribe and they were warned against going.  The men went anyway.  After meeting a few of the men of the tribe, the missionaries were hopeful that they could really begin to share Christ with them.  But instead, the tribesmen came against them and killed them.  though they had guns and could have defended themselves, the missionaries chose to die rather than kill those who had not yet received Christ in the hopes that their sacrifice would pave the way for the Gospel to spread among the Auca.  It did. The book, Through Gates of Splendor, by Elisabeth Elliot tells the story in detail.

**Partial quote from The Two Towers movie as spoken by Sam Gamgee.  :-)

Burdens Shared

There’s a saying that a burden shared is a burden halved but a joy shared is a joy doubled.  I’ve seen and experienced the second half of that saying but in this last month I’ve really, truly experienced the first.

Overall, I’m an introvert who’s also rather shy and awkward in normal social interactions.  I try but I’m not always sure I’m “doing it right.”  I show my heart and give my full trust to only a few but will gladly be a true friend to anyone who honors me with that title.  I want to be able to help others, to be known as someone fully trustworthy, someone to whom it is safe to confide your hopes and hurts alike.  But I’m not used to the idea that someone else might want to do the same for me.

When things grew suddenly difficult at work, I spent two weeks trying to bear the burden alone.  “My friends and family have enough troubles of their own right now.  They don’t need me adding to them,” I thought.  And I struggled.  I dreaded leaving for work in the morning - wanted to call in sick several times though I was physically fine.  The stress ate at me and I did get sick(ish).  When I got home, I wanted nothing more than to curl up under the blankets and hide (it didn’t help that the weather was rather dull…).  But I didn’t tell anyone that I was struggling because I thought I was strong enough alone and didn’t want to be a bother.  And there was one person I wanted to tell before anyone else and we just couldn’t seem to find a way to get together for those first two weeks.  It was not a fun time.  At all.

And then the meeting I was hoping for happened.  I got to tell my mom what had been eating at me for a fortnight.  And just telling her felt like I’d dropped a heavy pack - her encouragement after was like massaging the kinks out of my shoulders.  Then I told another friend and my brother.  And I wrote how I’d been feeling down and shared it with y’all.

It was like the sun breaking through the clouds after a thunderstorm.

My burden, my struggle, didn’t weigh anyone else down when I told them.  In fact, a couple of folks said it gave them relief to know what was going on because they’d seen that something was off but didn’t know what.  And for my part, I felt lighter, freer, more relaxed.  The weight wasn’t gone, but it wasn’t pressing me into the ground any more.  I could breathe again.

As Christians, we’re told to “bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (Gal. 6:2) and also to “rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.” (Rom 12:15).  Now I really can see why.

After my last post, I had a friend apologize for telling me about her problems with class and say that she wouldn’t have bothered me if she’d known what I was struggling with.  Maybe her problems seemed insignificant to her but I never want anyone to feel that way.  I’ve friends who are battling physical ailments and family problems and others who are trying to find the direction God wants their lives to go in but knowing their struggle doesn’t make mine worse.  Rather, it reminds me that I’m not the only one with difficulties to overcome.  It lets me focus on others rather than myself.

And it reminds me to go before the Throne of Grace.

“Casting all your cares upon Him for He cares for you,” we’re told in 1 Peter 5:7.  If sharing my burdens with other mortal beings who cannot actually change my circumstances makes me feel this much lighter, how much more when taking them before the King of kings who controls all things?  A not-distant King who walks among His people and will gladly bear us up if we will but ask.

Does this mean everything is smooth sailing?  That it’s all sunshine and roses?  No.  It does mean that I am never alone.  That my troubles are a passing thing compared to what will come.  Though the way may be rough and filled with turmoil, I have the truest of friends who will walk beside me into His glorious kingdom.  And that Friend has been generous enough to give me other friends and family who will lighten my burdens when I share them – and whose burdens I can help carry until the day when He takes them away for good.

“…In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33b)

Hope Unquenchable

As most of my friends know, my favorite character from literature is Samwise Gamgee of The Lord of the Rings fame.  His down-to-earth practicality, his unwavering loyalty, and his unfailing hope made him my favorite very swiftly.  I liked Sam’s lack of trust in strangers until they’d proven themselves – even among the Elves of whom he was in awe he did not immediately let down his guard. And then he killed Shelob too (my nightmare for years was being trapped in a cave with a giant spider in front of me – I never had that dream again after reading that passage in The Two Towers).  I saw myself in Sam.  Or perhaps, myself as I would like to be.

I recently came across a passage by Tolkien that said the name the Elves gave Sam meant “Hope Unquenchable” and that they called Frodo “Endurance Beyond Hope” for their efforts in destroying the One Ring.  That little snippet has been rather significant to me.  It’s two different kinds of strength – one to never lose hope no matter how dire the circumstances and the other to keep going even when hope is gone.  I have a friend to whom I would give the name “Endurance Beyond Hope.”  She’s much more pessimistic than I, tends to “see the glass” as half-empty, and doesn’t easily find the good in the world.  But you know what?  It doesn’t matter.  She keeps the Faith and keeps going.  And she is a lot of fun to be around.

That’s not me.  I’m “Hope Unquenchable” and I’ve only just begun to see what that means – and how hard it can actually be.  I’m having a really tough time at work right now.  A tough time that just exploded in my face and for which I was utterly unprepared.  I’m terrified in a way that I’ve never been before.  I’m used to the fear associated with going strange places and meeting new people.  As paralyzing as it is sometimes, it’s an anticipated reaction and I know how to deal with it.  Not so much right now.  I’m finding it really hard to smile, especially at work, which is a strange sensation for me.  When people at work ask the casual “How are you?” my response used to be “I am doing well” in an upbeat tone.  Now it’s “I’m ok” with the hint of a question or a sigh.  I don’t want to lie because I’m not doing well, but I couldn’t say that I’m terrified because my job that I enjoy is on the line.

And then I realized, I am ok.  Despite everything, I’m ok.  I’m not happy per se but that’s ok.  I feel like a deep river might when there is a storm crashing overhead.  The surface waters are rough and choppy, you can’t see a thing.  The river is a mess with debris clogging the waters and making it exceedingly treacherous.  It’s frightening and horrifying and it doesn’t seem like anything could be ok

But deep down near the riverbed, all is calm.  The current flows smoothly, steadily, heedless of the wrack and ruin above.  It’s pulling the mess along, dragging it further along the flow, dropping bits and pieces as it goes until the storm is past and even the surface flows clear again.

I’m in a big storm right now.  One that stirs the water at greater depths than I have felt them disturbed in a long time.  But the deepest parts still flow clear because my Hope is secure.  I’m worried and scared and more flustered emotionally than I really know how to deal with but that’s ok.  I’m ok.  I’m not despairing and still going on anyway because of my Savior.  Somehow, I find an undercurrent of hope – even hopefulness – instead because of my Savior.

I still don’t know what tomorrow holds.  I’m frightened of what it might.  I don’t want to leave my position here, especially under sour circumstances.  But even if that should happen, I’ll still be ok.  I will have hope that will not be quenched.

“I will lift my eyes in the darkest night for I know my Savior lives.  My Savior lives!”

--From the song “How Can I Keep from Singing Your Name?”